Trip to US Part 3 - Idaho

"Too many parents make life hard for their children by trying, too zealously, to make it easy for them." -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, poet, dramatist, novelist, and philosopher (28 Aug 1749-1832)

this is what jet lag looks like

No matter how well you plan and no matter how efficiently you use your time, you can never accomplish everything you set out to do when you travel. It is an impossible task yet we continue to perpetuate this illusion every time we set out.

first night in Idaho - downtown Boise live music

When traveling to visit family in Idaho it’s even more accentuated. We have a bigger family and more moving parts. We do what we can and hope that at the end of it all we have done the main bits of what we had set out to do.

Aunt CJ teaching piano

 One key theme of the Idaho leg of the trip was real estate. All of my siblings (and one niece) have purchased homes within the past seven or eight months. My younger sister Lisa was in the process of moving back from Taiwan. My brother laid claim to property in Idaho (though still living in Oregon) for the first time. It’s a time of change as my siblings edge closer to retirement and the next generation begins to own their own homes. The family seems to be slowly moving into a new phase.

boating and hanging out by the lake

I’m a bit behind, as usual. The income of my children will be limited to tooth fairy revenue for a few years to come. Their first cars are likely to be electric and they will never know a world without social media. And they’re probably three decades away from buying their own homes.

mtn. biking Jug Mountain

So yes, Idaho. I don’t have the time or energy to go into detail about how we spent our time but I’ll highlight a few things. After a night in a hotel to get settled, go to storage to retrieve some things, we spent a night with my sister and boyfriend in their new townhouse on the Boise River. Very nice. Made me think that I should add townhouse as an option for when we return to the US (whenever that is). Very comfortable and the smell of the river area took me back to my time in college where I would cross it every day going back and forth to school.

paddle boarding-ish with Kiran

The next day we headed to the McCall area where we would came for the next four days. The campground is on a lake and my sister Cheryl’s family has a boat. The family spent quite a bit of time waterskiing, swimming, paddle boarding, etc. I tried my hand at surfing behind the boat. I’d never done it before and I’m not sure I’d even seen it. But it amounts to basically being pulled by the boat on a wide board. The idea is to surf the deep wake directly behind the prop and try to get to the sweet spot where you can self-propel on the wave. I got up rather easily, pulled myself up behind the boat as you’re supposed to and road the wave. However, though I was hitting that sweet spot, I was never able to nonchalantly toss the rope into the boat and self-propel. Maybe next time.

Uncle Curtis & Aunt Cheryl with Kinaya

Otherwise we ate a lot of good food, had Kiran practice riding her bike with no training wheels (on the second-hand bike we bought for $7.99), caught up with family, interestingly had lunch with Idaho friends that we met in Burundi and so forth.

the whole gang at the Ugly Duck

When we broke camp we headed to Boise briefly and then on to Kimberly to stay with my parents. I always enjoy hanging out there. The girls have plenty to do and it’s a good time to relax. We fit in our regular doctor visits and ran a lot of errands. It was also the lead up to my parents’ 60^th wedding anniversary.

in the limo with the folks for their 60th

There were actually two events – both are places that my parents like to go to where the people have become like family to them. They must be since a lot of these people know as much about us and the family knows about each other.

small town America...

The first evening was at a place call Duck Ugly. It’s that modest, home-spun place that you see in American movies depicting rural life. It’s the kind of establishment that is, in a way, a reflection of where I’m from. It’s simple. Friendly. Unassuming. They welcomed this monstrous hoard from all over the place for the evening. We had a nice dinner. My mom played the piano for a while and then did a couple of songs with the local band. The owner got up and said a few kind words about my parents and that was about it. Very nice evening though.

Lisa and CJ

The next day was a bigger even involving a limo to a restaurant on the Snake River Canyon. Then we road back to the Snug in Eden – a place with the same home-spunness as the Duck. The idea was to pull out all the stops and give the folks a time to remember with lots of friends of the family (past and present) joining with their current friends. Wonderful buffet dinner. Cake and snacks. Very nice evening.

the obligatory doctor visits

Unfortunately we needed to get back to Boise the next morning. We had to begin our preparations for flying out the following morning. The preparation isn’t what it was when we were living in Bujumbura. In Nairobi we have more access to “stuff” so there was less pressure on us. In the end we did what we had time for, packed it all up, making sure we were within our weight limits, and the holidays were over. Or almost. We just had one more stop to make in the Netherlands.