Every year, the girls have a two-week holiday in October. You feel like school is just getting going and then there’s a break. You return from that break and you begin to sense that Christmas break is on the horizon. I realize that, as a child, these periods seem much longer. For parents, it definitely keeps you on your toes to make sure that your kids are occupied during this time. And since families always have at least one parent who is working, it’s not possible that we have vacation time for all of these breaks.
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It's autumn for the northern hemisphere. For us, just below the equator, it’s spring. Whatever that means. If I’m honest, all the seasons seem to blend together here. For me, it’s either wet or not wet.
Typically October falls in the wet category. Except that it’s not that wet, at least so far. We opted on going to the coast for their break rather than on safari since rain is less of a nuisance on the beach. As it worked out, we had almost no rain anyway.
The last time we were in Diani was in February. If we had more money, I wouldn’t mind going more often (a lot of people I know do) but twice a year is not bad. As I have admitted before on this blog, I am much more of a mountain (or safari) person than a beach person and, after three or four days on the coast I start to feel like I’ve had enough. On this break we would be there for four days.
I would need to work for about half of the time that we were there. I’ve done this several times before, including during the pandemic. It’s not bad in that there are worse places to work. On the other hand, it can be annoying to be churning out emails on a laptop, taking calls, etc. while the world around you sucks down copious amounts of alcohol and allows the sun’s rays to turn their skin to a deep red color.
I should say that this particular hotel where we often stay caters to Germans. They probably make up about half of the guests. Most of the signage is in English and German. The other half of the guests are mostly from other parts of Europe. Rarely any Americans or Asians and only a few Kenyans.
The clientele have nothing to do with why we stay there. We like it partly because they have such a nice, clean beach. The food is good and the rooms are decent. There’s a nice game area for the kids. Of late, the Wi-Fi has been great – an important detail when taking video calls. Their partner hotel, which has similar clientele, has a waterslide which was huge when the girls were younger. We have ventured out and tried a few other places, including sharing a villa, but, for now at least, we sort of migrate back to this one given that it’s easy (we don’t need to prepare out own meals), we’ve become familiar with it, and we have even gotten to know some of the staff.
red-headed agama |
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On the first morning, I watched everyone lube up with sunscreen, don their sunglasses and head to the pool. I, on the other hand, found a corner of the thatched clubhouse where there was a functioning wall socket and set up shop. I did have a small ocean view, plenty of coffee, and it was relatively quiet so I wasn’t complaining. I did have an occasional vervet monkey come snooping around looking to steal a snack but otherwise, I was left alone.
When the girls were younger, it was more of a challenge. They would find out where I was working and pop over frequently to ask me to come watch some sort of new skill or trick they learned in the pool. I do miss those days sometimes. Nowadays they seem content to occupy themselves in the pool, play in the waves on the beach, or lounge for long periods of time absorbed in a book (they aren’t allowed phones yet). They do prefer when it’s the four of us (for now), but they’re also very happy doing their own thing.
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On Friday afternoon, we had an opportunity to take a boat to go snorkeling. We hadn’t brought our snorkeling gear but we were able to borrow some and off we went. We headed out to a reef only a couple of kilometers from the hotel. We hadn’t previously been to this particular location, but it turned out to be quite nice. Many of the boats have a glass bottom so you can track the scenery beneath you as well as around you as you head out to the reef.
We shared the boat with another dozen people. I was itching to jump in and as soon as the anchor was dropped, I was the first one in. The water is clear and beautiful, offering fantastic visibility. There were so many colorful fish of various kinds including a moray eel. The guy driving the boat gave me some bread to feed the fish so they came to me in large numbers to eat out of my hand. In fact, there were so many fish that Kinaya was a bit uncomfortable. She returned to the boat at one point but courageously decided to jump back in not too long afterwards.
glass bottom boats often leak, as did ours; it's cool though |
We eventually made our way to a sandbar which was just a couple feet below the surface of the water (due to the low tide) even though we were about a kilometer out to sea. The whole trip lasted for about four hours and soon we were heading back at the hotel. We definitely need to do more snorkeling. It’s a relatively inexpensive and fun way to spend an afternoon.
starfish and urchins |
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Another thing we like to do in the evening after dinner is hang out on the beach. Near the equator, and without unnecessary things such as daylight savings time, sunset comes between 6 and 7pm all year round. It’s relatively safe so long as you stay within the vicinity of your hotel and under the watchful eye of the guards. I haven’t heard of people being robbed on the beach here but it probably does happen on occasion, particularly in the areas that are not under surveillance.
We’ve never had any issues and it’s such a wonderful way to cap off the evening. The stars are amazing, all the way to the horizon. There are the distant lights of the occasional passing ship. Small crabs dart back and forth on the beach. We often make some sort of modest sand sculpture.
Hotels on the coast typically offer some sort of entertainment every evening (traditional dancing, acrobatics, karaoke, DJ, etc.). When the girls were little, it was a thrill for them to be out at night and they would often get pulled into the entertainment when there was a call for volunteers. Nowadays they’re less interested. As good as the entertainment is (particularly some incredible acrobats which we did watch this time), it hasn’t varied significantly over the years.
colobus monkey surveying the hotel |
On Sunday morning, we would have time for a short swim before heading to the tiny local airport. It’s notorious for not having air conditioning nor enough seating. Thankfully we weren’t there long and our flight back to Nairobi was on time. For the girls, they had another week of vacation to go. For me, I would return to the airport at 4am the next morning to fly back to Mogadishu. Ugh.